Maynard's Readings Arcade

You were a challenge for her. You had a superior significance and she was irresistibly fascinated by you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"

I'm about to make a wild guess here, and yet can it be that as time went on, you started to be less and less of a challenge for her? And is it that right now, you're absolutely no challenge for her? Not to mention that she believes if she wanted to, at any time she could get you back again and wrapped around her little finger just by saying the word?

I'm going to be a bit crude here, nevertheless as you know, to become a challenge again you must demonstrate to your ex that her sexuality does not have any control over you any more. Contemplate what it's like when you're stalking her with not returned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And after that think about just what it is like when you continue doing it (as a lot of guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You're indicating to the woman that you are a low-value guy with no other sexual choices.

She is not going to respect you again until you reject her lovemaking influence over you. Fortunately you are doing that now by not personally interacting with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.

You should definitely stay 100% strict with your communication cut-off. Be careful not to be "friends" with her, as that rewards her with the continuing approval of power over you while giving her a handy reason to stay separated. (Your ex reasons that she's letting you down easy doing this, assuaging any remorse she may feel.)

However, you should definitely keep her locked in with your things. More than likely lots of your belongings are at her residence, and vice versa. She may also owe you money as well. She could ask a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you would like everything back again.

The ideal reply to this is simply "No, not yet. The reason is simply because her holding onto your stuff (and you holding onto hers) is still locking you two in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would be caused by settling your accounts.

For the next 3 weeks, you must fully accept -- and embrace -- the fact that you're an independent guy now. Take what took place with your ex-girlfriend and learn from it. You have a golden opportunity to revolutionize your life which will finally allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.